I hear this all the time from men who reach out to me: “I’ve already tried everything. Nothing works for me.”
They’ve tried Viagra. Didn’t work. They’ve tried testosterone treatments. Made things worse. They’ve bought supplements, tried diets, even attempted meditation apps. Still struggling.
And here’s the heartbreaking part — they’re convinced they’re the exception. The one guy for whom there’s no solution.
If that’s you right now, I need you to hear this: You’re not broken. You’ve just been trying to solve the wrong problem.
First: Is Your ED Psychogenic?
Before we go further, let’s be clear about what kind of ED we’re talking about. If you have organic ED caused by vascular disease, diabetes complications, medications, or other medical conditions, you need a urologist first. This guide will still support you emotionally and holistically through that process, but medical assessment and diagnosis must be your priority.
This post — and Beat ED+ — focuses specifically on psychogenic and situational ED. That’s ED stemming from stress, shame, trauma, relationship conflicts, or circumstances rather than an underlying health problem. Roughly 40% of all ED is psychogenic, and it’s becoming increasingly common in younger men.
Not sure which type you have? Download my FREE GUIDE AND SELF-TEST to identify your ED type and learn about treatment options.
Important: I cannot and do not provide medical advice. If you suspect your ED has organic causes, please consult a licensed physician for proper evaluation.
The Missing Piece Almost Everyone Overlooks
After 25+ years treating erectile dysfunction, I’ve discovered something that changes everything for men with psychogenic or situational ED. It’s so simple that most doctors miss it entirely.
Your penis doesn’t need fixing. Your nervous system needs calming.
Let me explain with a breakthrough insight from Dr. Rachel Rubin, a urologist who finally explained what’s really happening in your body. Dr. Rubin shared that the penis contains smooth muscle tissue that responds to our fight-or-flight instincts. “When the muscles of the penis are contracted, when they are tight, it squeezes out all the blood, like squeezing out a sponge,” (Rubin, 2023).
In other words, your penis muscles must relax to fill with blood. That doesn’t happen when you are under psychological pressure.
This is why some men with psychogenic ED take Viagra or Cialis and still can’t maintain an erection. The medication helps with blood flow, but if your brain is screaming “DANGER!” because you’re anxious about failing again, those smooth muscles stay contracted. The blood can’t get in, no matter how much the medication tries to help — because you are fighting your own nervous system!
The Real Solution: Retraining Your Nervous System
This is where everything changes for men with psychogenic ED. When you understand that ED isn’t about mechanical failure but about nervous system dysregulation, you can finally address the actual problem.
In Beat ED+, I walk you through the exact process I’ve used with hundreds of clients to rewire this response. Not through willpower. Not through positive thinking. Through practical, body-based techniques that teach your nervous system that intimacy is safe.
Here’s what that actually looks like:
Body awareness exercises that help you recognize when you’re tensing up — before it becomes a problem
Breathing techniques specifically designed to activate your parasympathetic nervous system (the “rest and digest” mode your penis needs)
Progressive relaxation techniques that release the chronic tension you’ve been carrying in your pelvic floor
Mindfulness strategies that break the shame cycle fueling your anxiety
Edging and sensation work that rebuilds your confidence without the pressure of performance
This isn’t theory. This is my personal clinical roadmap. It worked for clients who thought they were “unfixable.”
What Beat ED+ Offers You
This guide gives you:
- The medical science behind erections and what actually causes dysfunction
- The psychology of ED and how shame perpetuates the problem
- Practical worksheets for pelvic floor strengthening, edging techniques, and rebuilding self-esteem
- Body-based relaxation protocols proven to calm nervous system hyperarousal
- Strategies for maintaining intimacy even when your body isn’t cooperating
- A clear roadmap to break the shame cycle and reclaim your sexual confidence
By the time you finish this guide, you’ll understand your body better than most men ever will. You’ll have concrete tools you can use immediately. And most importantly, you’ll stop seeing yourself as defective and start seeing yourself as a man taking power over their health and happiness.
The First Step
You’ve been carrying this burden alone for too long. You’ve been convinced that you’re the problem — that you’re broken, and nothing will work for you.
None of that is true. You haven’t been given the right tools. You’ve been sold snake oil when what you needed was understanding. You’ve been given generic advice when what you needed was a cutting-edge, evidence-based plan to overcome!
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But more importantly — every day you wait is another day of carrying this burden. Another day of avoiding intimacy. Another day of feeling broken.
You deserve better. Your relationship deserves better.
