You have the right to educate yourself about your own body and your own sexual choices. You have the right to learn and grow to be the person you know you could be if only you knew a bit more about sex, intimacy, romance, and relationships. Unfortunately, at this moment in history, solid sources of sex information are shrinking, sex advice columns have vanished, groups have been shut down, and more people are turning to porn for sex advice.
Especially if you’re kinky. BDSM, fetish, and power exchange education have always been over-policed. I’ve advocated for sexual freedom, diversity, and dignity through education since 1987. Can’t stop me now! Whether you’re exploring submission, dominance, or any flavor of kink, you deserve evidence-based information.
Everything I create – from therapeutic exercises to educational frameworks – comes straight from my clinical practice. I read voraciously, stay current with research, earn CME credits, and synthesize that knowledge into original methodologies that work. I don’t regurgitate textbooks or recycle other people’s protocols. What you get from me is intensive research plus clinical experience transformed into tools you can use.
What Is Pleasure Lit?
Pleasure Literacy is about being well-read about your own physical and mental desires.
It’s about learning all about yourself — not cordoning off your sexual self but finding a warm and safe space for the pleasures of intimacy within yourself!
Pleasure lights life up. Reading books that help you build wisdom about the inner life that revolves around your sex and gender help you find your personal truths.
Most importantly, Pleasure Literacy is about being friends with your sexual body, feeling positive about your needs for intimacy, bonding, and romance deep inside.
Pleasure Literacy frees you from shame, guilt, inhibitions you hate.
Accessible Sex Ed and Advice for All Adults
Free Resources: Universal knowledge that everyone deserves, varying from BDSM scholarship links to vital adult education. You’ll still find valuable resources here to help you with sex. Each one is much more in-depth than you will see in a magazine and offers material that can change your life.
Affordable Guides ($10-$20): These guidebooks cover foundational topics: sexual intelligence, self-improvement, consent, healthy communication, and increased pleasure, and a range of issues in BDSM and fetish. Priced to be accessible while supporting my ability to keep creating.
Premium Guides ($45-$75): Targeted therapeutic programs for specific challenges (e.g., sexual dysfunctions, resolving sexual conflicts). These replace 12+ weeks of single-issue therapy ($3,000+), condensed into steps you can complete on your own. If you’re not motivated to fix the problems, these guides are not for you.
The Pleasure Lit Emporium
Visit the Emporium, and pick up some free PDFs for your pleasure.
I hope you’ll invest in the guides that speak to you. If you can’t afford them right now, the free resources will continue to grow, so check back for updates.
Every purchase helps me keep creating the uncensored, reliable sex education resources that adults deserve.
Be Pleasure Literate.
Please read about the launch on the blog