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Welcome, my friends, to probably the post I should have posted when I began this particular journey. But here we are, and so too is the Pleasure Literacy Emporium (aka shop).
As sexual health and intimacy are slowly being erased on social media and medical sites, while porn sites continue to moistly churn on, one has to wonder whether the PTB just don’t care about public health. No one is immune: gynecologists and urologists alike have been cut by the knife of censorship. People are learning about sex from the porn on OnlyFans. How do you think that will turn out for society?
I’m grateful and happy to see that a lot of Kink, Rainbow Community and sexual freedom initiatives are continuing to stand up harder than before, along with colleagues who have figured out how to navigate the newest algorithms. They are fighting for comprehensive sex ed for kids, fighting for trans rights, abortion rights, and more. Their youth and fierce commitment are beautiful to behold.
So Why the Pleasure Literacy Emporium?
This bookshop is my vision of what a sex ed bookshop for adults should be, ideally. That means accounting for people who don’t have money to spend on books but who deserve the information. For books I cannot give away for free, I can promise you that they will always be cheaper here than on Amazon!
Each “book” is a PDF file that you can print or keep in a folder on your device. Each book is a tiny slice of therapy! Imagine coming into my office, looking for ideas on spicing up your sex life. One of my books gives you ideas to try. Are you a guy experiencing body shame? Try my booklet of affirmations — it may seem corny, but I promise it works if you do them. Are you a woman over 50 and wondering about your future sex life? I’ve got a great free book for you too.
What’s in the Pleasure Literacy Emporium?
The Pleasure Literacy Emporium exists because adults deserve evidence-based sex education, something they seldom received as kids and young adults. You also deserve some wisdom culled from my 4 decades of academic research and clinical practice, thousands of clients, millions of readers, and a bunch of degrees.
Here’s what’s waiting for you in the Emporium:
Free Resources
Unleash Your Sexual Confidence: 8 Transformative Intimacy Strategies — Spicy, practical tips for improving your game in the bedroom. Free because everyone deserves a starting point.
Manfirmations — Affirmations designed specifically for men who need to rebuild their relationship with their own body and sexuality. Also free.
Guide and Self-Test for Erectile Dysfunction — Not sure what kind of ED you’re dealing with? This short guide explains the types and helps you identify which one applies to you. Knowledge is the first step.
Female Submissives Bibliography — A curated research resource for anyone studying female submission academically or personally. Free to download.
Smash the Myths: Sex and Menopause — Menopause doesn’t end your sex life. This science-backed guide dismantles the fearmongering and gives you real tools for reclaiming pleasure, libido, and confidence on your own terms.
Affordable Guides
Ten Exercises to Boost Your Self-Esteem — Self-compassion isn’t soft. It’s foundational. This DIY booklet gives you concrete exercises to feel genuinely better about yourself. Just $1.99.
Become a Sex Genius — Learn to critically analyze your own sex life and take charge of your sexual self. This is the flagship guide for building real sexual intelligence. $10.
Premium
BEAT ED+ — Dr. Brame has helped hundreds of men overcome erectile dysfunction. This comprehensive clinical program brings that expertise directly to you. $50, a tiny fraction of what you’d pay for therapy.
Everything lives at the Pleasure Literacy Emporium. Start with the free resources. Go deeper when you’re ready.
Get Pleasure Lit. Be Pleasure Literate.
photo credit: Tom Juggins @ UnSplash
