If there’s any one mission I’ve had throughout my sexology career, it’s to speak truth about the realities of adult intimacy. It was because I thought BDSM was unfairly demonized and desperately misunderstood that I wrote Different Loving. Indeed, all my non-fiction books about those adult realities share the same mission: to offer scientific information to a general public chiefly fed on myths and politics.
Over my 25+ years treating erectile dysfunction, I’ve learned that ED is not only the most common “dysfunction” reported by male clients of ALL ages, but that it is a game-changer for their self-image.
I remember a client — let’s call him Marcus — who came to me after two years of avoiding any type of intimacy with his wife. He was afraid that if he seemed amorous or affectionate, she would see that he wasn’t aroused. And the shame of that was unbearable for him. It took hard work and a lot of faith in me, but we worked hard for about three months and his life changed! He had come to me convinced he was “broken” and that I couldn’t help him. He left a few months later with an all-new and more functional libido.
Not with pills. Not with supplements. With understanding, tools, and a shift in perspective.
And that’s what my guide offers you. I can’t promise 100% success (anyone who does is lying). I can promise that you will never regret reading this book. You will learn facts you never knew, life-lessons you need to hear, tips to create a better inner life, and to make success in bed happen. You will be getting it from a world leader in psychosexual therapy and healing.
This guide exists because I’ve seen too many men suffer needlessly when facts could be setting them free. It’s time to normalize ED and bust the shame surrounding it.
If You’re Avoiding Intimacy Because You’re Terrified of Failing Again
You’re not broken. You’re not alone. And this is fixable.
Research shows that 52% of adult men experience ED at some point in their lives — and that number is conservative because so many men never report it. You’re part of a silent majority that’s been taught to suffer in shame. But here’s what the statistics also show: when men understand the mind-body connection and apply evidence-based techniques, improvement rates are remarkable.
I’ve packed this guide with the medical science and psychological insights I’ve used with hundreds of clients who felt exactly like you do right now. We’re going to address that shame and isolation directly.
If Medications Didn’t Work For You
Viagra, Cialis, Levitra — they work for some men but fail for others, and doctors often don’t explain why. The missing piece is usually psychological or situational factors that no pill can address.
Here’s what most doctors won’t tell you: if you’re stressed, anxious, or carrying shame about ED, Viagra can’t override your brain’s stress response. The smooth muscles in your penis need to relax to fill with blood, and relaxation starts in your mind. That’s why psychological and situational factors matter just as much as — sometimes more than — physical factors.
This guide fills that crucial gap that purely medical approaches miss. It addresses both your body AND your mind.
If You’re Exhausted by Snake Oil and Shame
I’m tired of watching men get exploited by dubious supplements and fear-mongering content that makes them feel worse about themselves. You deserve evidence-based, compassionate information that cuts through the cultural mythology about male sexuality.
The supplement industry makes billions by preying on male insecurity. Most of those products don’t work — and the ones that claim miraculous results? They’re often either dangerous or complete scams. You deserve better than false promises and wasted money.
If You Want to Take Control Proactively
Even if you haven’t experienced ED yet, understanding how stress, lifestyle, and mindset affect sexual function can help you prevent problems before they start. Knowledge is power, especially when it comes to your sexual health.
The men who read this guide before ED becomes a chronic problem often avoid years of unnecessary suffering. Prevention is always easier than recovery.
What You’ll Actually Learn
Here’s what you will find in BEAT ED+
- The medical science behind erections and what actually causes dysfunction
- The psychology of ED and how shame perpetuates the problem
- Practical worksheets for pelvic floor strengthening, edging techniques, and rebuilding self-esteem
- How to maintain intimacy even when your body isn’t cooperating
- How to break the shame cycle and reclaim your sexual confidence
By the time you finish this guide, you’ll understand your body better than most men ever will. You’ll have concrete tools you can use immediately. And most importantly, you’ll stop seeing yourself as defective and start seeing yourself as someone actively taking control of their health and happiness.
Who This Guide ISN’T For
Let me be honest with you: if you have severe organic ED caused by vascular disease, diabetes complications, or other significant medical conditions, you need a urologist first. This guide will still support you emotionally through that process, but medical intervention should be your priority.
This guide focuses on psychogenic (psychological) and situational ED — the types that stem from stress, shame, relationship issues, or lifestyle factors. That’s the majority of ED cases, and it’s where I’ve seen the most dramatic transformations.
Real Results
The men who need this most are carrying shame, confusion, or hopelessness about their sexual function. If that’s you, this guide meets you exactly where you are and gives you a clear, proven path forward.
As one of my clients put it: “I wish I’d found this information two years ago. It would have saved my marriage and saved me from so much unnecessary suffering.”
Don’t wait another day.
Start here: Download my FREE “3 Types of ED” self-assessment guide. You’ll learn the critical differences between Organic, Psychogenic, and Situational ED—and discover which type you have. My specialty is psychogenic and situational ED, the types that respond remarkably well to the therapeutic approach in BEAT ED+.
If your assessment shows you have psychogenic or situational ED, you’re an ideal candidate for this program. The full BEAT ED+ guide gives you everything you need to recover—worksheets, exercises, cognitive tools, and the confidence to reclaim your sexual health.
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Note for healthcare providers: The practical assessment tools I’ve developed can help you make better referral decisions and provide more comprehensive care to your patients.
